Dear Editors: I was moved by Michael A.
Kings column, Seeing the
Entire Trip (Spring 2006). The
story of his daughters car accident
reminded me of an accident I had in 1996
which completely destroyed my
fathers car.
Little did I know how
that experience would completely change
my life. As it happened, my parents were
out of town, so I had to begin to deal
with the situation myself. I called my
parents destination and left a
message for them to call home once they
had arrived. I later shared my news. This
was difficult. They were relieved that I
was safe, yet all I could think about was
the end of that car (fortunately
insured).
At the time of my
accident, I had just completed advanced
university science courses as preparation
to attend medical school in French in
Quebec, Canada. I had had my interviews
and my plan was essentially set. Yet
after my life flashed in front of me, I
felt as though I was meant to venture out
into the world for another purpose. I
thought a year of working abroad might
better prepare me mentally.
Initially, I acted as a
liaison in France for a Canadian
university while I completed a qualifying
year for a Masters in French. My
plan had been to return to Canada. One
thing led to another and I was invited to
complete my Masters and Ph.D. based
in France. I found short-term work to
enable me to do this. During six years
based abroad, I took initiatives to build
resourcefulness and other skills which I
wouldnt have if I had taken another
path.
In hindsight, I think
Higher Forces were giving me a wake-up
call through that accident. We can easily
lull ourselves into a state of
complacency in which we think we wish to
do something but arent really
listening to our inner voices.
Today Im living
and working in Australia after having had
the good fortune to expand my spiritual
life through travel to 42 countries. If I
hadnt had my accident 10 years ago,
I would likely be leading a very
different life. I am grateful to that
Higher Power for opening my eyes to new
ways I can enrich my life as well as the
lives of others through writing and other
pursuits.
Dr. Liara Covert, Victoria,
Australia
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