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Contents
Reaching Beyond the Mennonite Comfort Zone


Foreword By John D. Roth 13

MRN MINISTRY Resources Preface BY
Philip Bergey and Tana Pelkey-landis 15

Author’s Preface 17

1 Starting with Stereotypes: What Mennonites
and non-Mennonites Think of Each Other
+ 23

Perceptions About Mennonites

Mennonites are Amish or Amish-like

All (or most) Mennonites are farmers

Mennonites are strict and have no fun

Mennonites are simple minded

You have to be born Mennonite to be a Mennonite

Mennonites love to eat

Mennonites are cheap

Mennonites are a cult

View From the Other Direction—Perceptions of
Non-Mennonites

Some definitions for clarity

Non-Mennonites are not Christians

Non-Mennonites think like Mennonites do

Non-Mennonites don’t have good family values

Non-Mennonites are too worldly

Mennonites should teach non-Mennonites
how to be good Mennonites

2 What Does it Mean to be a "Good Mennonite?" + 37

How I Became a Christian

Why I Became a Mennonite

Living the life of a Christian

Similar values

A loving welcome

Helping others

Being there in body and spirit

Simple lifestyle

Mennonite Things I Don’t Do

Where I Am Today

3 What Does it Mean to be a "Good Christian?" + 48

What Christians Are Not

Christian Means Follower of Christ

What Makes a Person a Christian?

4 A Close-Knit Community:
How That Appears to Outsiders
+ 57

Going Around in Circles

Anabaptist Community in History and Today

Church Personality

Alienation in the Church

Strong Sense of Community

A Sense of Belonging

5 The Ideal Family and the Mennonite Church + 70

A Look at Families

Families aren’t perfect

Different family trees

Varying education and occupations

Working mothers and two income families

Single parents

Divorced and remarried

Singles

Youth

Senior citizens

Couples without children

Families of color

Bicultural families

Adoptions

Families dealing with homosexuality

How Does the Church Interact with the Family?

6 What non-Mennonites Don’t Want to Hear + 85

Theological Issues

That’s not Mennonite—You’re not Mennonite

Emphasis on who or what is Mennonite

Mennonites are the only Christians

Mennonite theology has the same weight as the Bible

Preservation or protection of doctrine

Conflict of beliefs

Little sharing of personal conversion experiences

Comments that Can Turn Away Non-Mennonites

The world is bad and you are worldly

Patriotism is bad

Demeaning what is outside the congregational walls

Demeaning other congregations

Mistrust

Persecution and the martyr syndrome

Personal Treatment

The Mennonite game

Judgment

Not able to handle a less than ideal situation

Shock and amazement in something you do

Dead silence

Private inside jokes and conversations

Being ignored or cut in front of

Being used

Emphasizing the differences

In Conclusion

7 Nonconfrontation: A Way of Life or a Way Out? + 106

A Brief Review of Pacifism, Nonviolence, and Nonresistance

A Look at Nonconfrontation

Corporate nonconfrontation

Personal nonconfrontation

How nonconfrontation affects outreach

The view from non-Anabaptists

Jesus was Confrontational

8 Reaching Out Beyond the Familiar:
What Does It Require?
+ 118

The Familiar Church

Legalism

Inward focus

Self-preservation

Resting on our laurels

Changes in Attitudes

Outward focus

New believers

Changes in leadership

Changes in worship

Who are the outsiders?

Safe place versus comfort zone versus safe haven

Changes in Congregational Structure

Decision-making

Ministry-mindedness

Flexibility, involvement, and growth

9 Getting to Know People and Meeting Their Needs + 134

Fear of Compromise

Traditional, Modern, Postmodern

Tradition view

Modern view

Postmodern view

The Way Things Were

The Way Things Are

The Way Things Go

10 Getting Churches on Track
with the Great Commission
+ 151

Preparing Churches for The Great Commission

Healing churches

Going outside of the box

A willingness to change

Establishing a vision

Welcoming congregations

Building relationships

Being missional

Addressing racism

Changing and forming a new identity

Remaining Anabaptist

The Author 172


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